:: An Inside Look into How a Man Attracts a Woman :: How to Get Women to Date You :: How to Get Her Outside the Club :: How an Ordinary Guy Did Some Extraordinary Things with a Very Beautiful Woman :: What Women Want in a Relationship :: Are Strippers Really Crazy :: How Intentionally Messing Up Your Chances with a Woman Can Skyrocket Your Success :: How to Approach and Meet Women :: Do Strippers Make Good Girlfriends :: How to Be a Nice Guy and Still Get Women :: How to Destroy Shyness Step-by-Step :: How to Get Women to Approach YOU :: Three Laws of Attraction Every Guy Has to Know :: When Did You Lose Your Virginity :: How to Be Treated Like a VIP :: The Stripper Girlfriend Mystery :: How to Get a Womans Phone Number - the Right Way :: Can Average Guys Attract Hot Women :: How to Compel Women to See You as a Sausage with Feet :: Do You Have Bad Behaviors that Keep You from Succeeding with Women :: How to Attract Women - Being the Bad Boy :: Should You Pay for a Woman or Not :: Never Buy a Woman a Drink :: Laid Back Ways to Bust Women :: An Attraction Secret I Learned from a Frog :: Why There Is No Such Thing as Failure with Women :: How to Get a Girl for Less Money :: Why Most Pick Up Lines Don't Work and a Better Solution :: Approaching Women with Boyfriends :: How to Pick Up a Woman on the Street :: How to Be the Man Women Love :: Why Should You Date a Stripper :: Why Neither Behaving Like a Jerk nor Acting Like a Nice Guy Will Attract Women :: Actual Game Conversation :: Why Women Never Call You After a Date :: How Does an Average Looking Joe Stand Out from other Guys and Have Women Picking Him over the Rest :: Do You Know How to Meet a Woman on the Street :: How to Create Instant Attraction and Have Women Chase YOU :: How to Kiss a Woman - without Rejection :: How to Start Meeting More Women Tonight :: The Two Magical Traits that ALL Women Are Attracted To :: How to Turn a Friend into a Lover :: Is Meeting Women a Chore for You :: How to Instantly Spark a Womans Attraction for You :: How to Talk to Women over the Phone :: You Are Not Special :: How to Attract Women - How to Impress Women :: How to Meet Women in Nightclubs and Streets :: Its Friday - Do You Know Where Your Women Are :: The Psychology Behind Triggering Attraction in Women :: The First and Most Basic Step to Becoming Successful with Women :: How to End Your Fear of Approaching Women :: The Most Effective Way to Pick Up a Woman :: How to Meet a Woman When Shes with Her Friends :: Five Myths Preventing Men from Attracting Women :: Openers for All Situations :: Common Problems Guys Have with Women :: The Ultimate Mistake Men Make with Women :: The Secret to Approaching Women and Starting Conversations :: Do Women Want to Be Hit On :: A Question from a Girl :: Do You Know When a Woman Is Checking You Out :: What if You Blow It with a Woman :: Push-Pull - A Powerful Way to Trigger Attraction Inside Women :: Why You Must NEVER Compliment Women :: How to Find a Girlfriend

:: Integrative Awakening :: So Goes the Nation :: A Complaint Free World :: The Authoritarians by Bob Altemeyer :: Enron - The Smartest Guys in the Room :: Energized Hypnosis :: Out There Radio :: Warrior Sage :: The Golden Hummingbird

:: Random Hostile Reality Tunnel :: Change Your Behavior - Change Your Life :: Lecture by John Dean - Author of Broken Government :: Dreaming - The Beginning :: Demons - Tricks - Danger and Despair :: Flying among the Apartments :: Learning the Archetypes :: Furious Family Holiday Reunion :: Beating My Bully :: The Magician :: Zombie Nightmare :: My Brother and I Saving Lives :: The Juice-Box - The Lie - Golf-Cart Road-Rage :: In the Village :: Cats in the Ocean

:: Do You Know When a Woman Is Checking You Out :: The Psychology Behind Triggering Attraction in Women :: Are Strippers Really Crazy :: What Women Want in a Relationship :: An Inside Look into How a Man Attracts a Woman :: Do Strippers Make Good Girlfriends :: How an Ordinary Guy Did Some Extraordinary Things with a Very Beautiful Woman :: How to Turn a Friend into a Lover :: How to Get Her Outside the Club :: How to Get Women to Date You :: Why You Must NEVER Compliment Women :: Approaching Women with Boyfriends :: How to Approach and Meet Women :: Do Women Want to Be Hit On :: Never Buy a Woman a Drink :: Energized Hypnosis :: An Attraction Secret I Learned from a Frog :: How to Be a Nice Guy and Still Get Women :: How to Find a Girlfriend :: How Intentionally Messing Up Your Chances with a Woman Can Skyrocket Your Success :: The Two Magical Traits that ALL Women Are Attracted To :: Push-Pull - A Powerful Way to Trigger Attraction Inside Women :: Three Laws of Attraction Every Guy Has to Know :: Why Should You Date a Stripper :: How to Create Instant Attraction and Have Women Chase YOU :: Lecture by John Dean - Author of Broken Government :: Laid Back Ways to Bust Women :: How to Be Treated Like a VIP :: Actual Game Conversation :: Why There Is No Such Thing as Failure with Women :: The Stripper Girlfriend Mystery :: Should You Pay for a Woman or Not :: Can Average Guys Attract Hot Women :: Integrative Awakening :: How to Destroy Shyness Step-by-Step :: Dreaming - The Beginning :: How to Get Women to Approach YOU :: Random Hostile Reality Tunnel :: How to Kiss a Woman - without Rejection :: The Ultimate Mistake Men Make with Women :: How to Instantly Spark a Womans Attraction for You :: How to Get a Womans Phone Number - the Right Way :: How to Compel Women to See You as a Sausage with Feet :: Enron - The Smartest Guys in the Room :: The Most Effective Way to Pick Up a Woman :: How to Attract Women - Being the Bad Boy :: The Golden Hummingbird :: Why Most Pick Up Lines Don't Work and a Better Solution :: The Secret to Approaching Women and Starting Conversations :: So Goes the Nation :: Why Women Never Call You After a Date :: The Magician :: How to Pick Up a Woman on the Street :: How to Get a Girl for Less Money :: How to End Your Fear of Approaching Women :: A Complaint Free World :: Why Neither Behaving Like a Jerk nor Acting Like a Nice Guy Will Attract Women :: How to Be the Man Women Love :: Five Myths Preventing Men from Attracting Women :: You Are Not Special :: How to Attract Women - How to Impress Women :: Demons - Tricks - Danger and Despair :: How Does an Average Looking Joe Stand Out from other Guys and Have Women Picking Him over the Rest :: How to Meet a Woman When Shes with Her Friends :: Warrior Sage :: Do You Have Bad Behaviors that Keep You from Succeeding with Women :: How to Talk to Women over the Phone :: Is Meeting Women a Chore for You :: Learning the Archetypes :: Beating My Bully :: When Did You Lose Your Virginity :: The Authoritarians by Bob Altemeyer :: Openers for All Situations :: Cats in the Ocean :: A Question from a Girl :: Do You Know How to Meet a Woman on the Street :: What if You Blow It with a Woman :: Its Friday - Do You Know Where Your Women Are :: How to Start Meeting More Women Tonight :: Change Your Behavior - Change Your Life :: Zombie Nightmare :: The First and Most Basic Step to Becoming Successful with Women :: Common Problems Guys Have with Women :: Furious Family Holiday Reunion :: Flying among the Apartments :: The Juice-Box - The Lie - Golf-Cart Road-Rage :: In the Village :: How to Meet Women in Nightclubs and Streets :: My Brother and I Saving Lives :: Out There Radio

:: An Inside Look into How a Man Attracts a Woman :: How to Get Women to Date You :: How to Get Her Outside the Club :: How an Ordinary Guy Did Some Extraordinary Things with a Very Beautiful Woman :: What Women Want in a Relationship :: Are Strippers Really Crazy :: How Intentionally Messing Up Your Chances with a Woman Can Skyrocket Your Success :: How to Approach and Meet Women :: Do Strippers Make Good Girlfriends :: How to Be a Nice Guy and Still Get Women :: How to Destroy Shyness Step-by-Step :: How to Get Women to Approach YOU :: Three Laws of Attraction Every Guy Has to Know :: When Did You Lose Your Virginity :: How to Be Treated Like a VIP :: The Stripper Girlfriend Mystery :: How to Get a Womans Phone Number - the Right Way :: Can Average Guys Attract Hot Women :: How to Compel Women to See You as a Sausage with Feet :: Do You Have Bad Behaviors that Keep You from Succeeding with Women :: How to Attract Women - Being the Bad Boy :: Should You Pay for a Woman or Not :: Never Buy a Woman a Drink :: Laid Back Ways to Bust Women :: An Attraction Secret I Learned from a Frog :: Why There Is No Such Thing as Failure with Women :: How to Get a Girl for Less Money :: Why Most Pick Up Lines Don't Work and a Better Solution :: Approaching Women with Boyfriends :: How to Pick Up a Woman on the Street :: How to Be the Man Women Love :: Why Should You Date a Stripper :: Why Neither Behaving Like a Jerk nor Acting Like a Nice Guy Will Attract Women :: Actual Game Conversation :: Why Women Never Call You After a Date :: How Does an Average Looking Joe Stand Out from other Guys and Have Women Picking Him over the Rest :: Do You Know How to Meet a Woman on the Street :: How to Create Instant Attraction and Have Women Chase YOU :: How to Kiss a Woman - without Rejection :: How to Start Meeting More Women Tonight :: The Two Magical Traits that ALL Women Are Attracted To :: How to Turn a Friend into a Lover :: Is Meeting Women a Chore for You :: How to Instantly Spark a Womans Attraction for You :: How to Talk to Women over the Phone :: Integrative Awakening :: You Are Not Special :: How to Attract Women - How to Impress Women :: How to Meet Women in Nightclubs and Streets :: So Goes the Nation :: Its Friday - Do You Know Where Your Women Are :: A Complaint Free World :: The Authoritarians by Bob Altemeyer :: Random Hostile Reality Tunnel :: Change Your Behavior - Change Your Life :: Lecture by John Dean - Author of Broken Government :: The Psychology Behind Triggering Attraction in Women :: The First and Most Basic Step to Becoming Successful with Women :: How to End Your Fear of Approaching Women :: The Most Effective Way to Pick Up a Woman :: How to Meet a Woman When Shes with Her Friends :: Enron - The Smartest Guys in the Room :: Five Myths Preventing Men from Attracting Women :: Energized Hypnosis :: Out There Radio :: Openers for All Situations :: Dreaming - The Beginning :: Warrior Sage :: Common Problems Guys Have with Women :: The Ultimate Mistake Men Make with Women :: The Secret to Approaching Women and Starting Conversations :: Do Women Want to Be Hit On :: A Question from a Girl :: Do You Know When a Woman Is Checking You Out :: What if You Blow It with a Woman :: Push-Pull - A Powerful Way to Trigger Attraction Inside Women :: How to Find a Girlfriend :: Why You Must NEVER Compliment Women :: The Golden Hummingbird :: Demons - Tricks - Danger and Despair :: Flying among the Apartments :: Learning the Archetypes :: Beating My Bully :: Furious Family Holiday Reunion :: The Magician :: Zombie Nightmare :: My Brother and I Saving Lives :: The Juice-Box - The Lie - Golf-Cart Road-Rage :: In the Village :: Cats in the Ocean

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You Are Not Special

Written by Joseph Matthews

Tuesday, 16 October 2007

I want to share with you an email I've gotten from a fan of my site which I find to be quite troubling...

A Troubling Email:

Hi Joseph,

When I would learn these openers and what to say the women instantly could smell that it is NOT ME who had originally these ideas. It wouldn't be myself who created these lines. They would reject me faster as I could imagine. So how should this whole thing work ???

Honestly Joe, if I would try one of these openers they would instantly laugh and reject me because they could smell that I learned these sentences.

My Response:

This type of e-mail is not an isolated instance. I get many e-mails from guys saying things like:

"I like your tactics, but they won't work for me."

"If I tried something like this, I'd get laughed at and rejected."

"If I actually approached a woman with this material, I'd spontaneously combust, scanners-style."

Well, you get the idea...

When I e-mail these guys back asking if they've actually *bothered* to go out and try my techniques, the answers are usually always:

"No. I just KNOW it won't work."

Well, for those of you out there who think this way, I have a secret I want to share with you...

YOU ARE NOT A SPECIAL CASE!

Seriously, most guys who have the toughest time with women think that no matter what they study, it won't work for them because their case is unique and different from every other guy out there.

Well, I'm here to tell you you're wrong.

I've learned through experience that most guys are not very different from each other, just as most girls aren't very different from each other. In fact, a friend of mine summed it up best when he said:

"All women are different. But not THAT different."

The same goes for us dudes.

We all have the same fears and insecurities. We just deal with them differently. Most guys deal by shutting down and not even trying to improve.

Rather, they take the easy way out and just blame the world, other women, their circumstances, etc.

They even blame themselves, yet they prefer to beat themselves up rather than take responsibility to IMPROVE their circumstance.

There's a name for that type of guy, and it's:

L-O-S-E-R

But the thing is, they don't have to stay that way. All it requires is a little hard work and effort on their part to CHANGE THEIR LIFE FOR THE BETTER!

In my book, The Art Of Approaching, I give you SPECIFIC tactics on how to take the bull by the horns and improve your social life.

No one says it's gonna be easy. You gotta do the work. But right now, I'm offering free support by email, so you'll have some support as you take this journey to improve your life!

I won't be offering this kind of support forever, so take advantage of it while you can. You can find out more information here:

Click Here To Start Meeting Beautiful Women Right Now!

It's time to change your life for the better, don't you think?

Wishing you success with women,

Joseph Matthews

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