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One of the most effective ways I've found for triggering attraction
in women, emotionally compelling them to want and each and chase
for more of you, is using what I call "Tension Loops."
The best
part of using Tension Loops is that they generate heaps of attraction
in women regardless of your looks, social status, or bank account.
A
Tension Loop is when you do something to create unresolved emotional
tension inside a woman, increase it, release it by bringing closure to
it, and then spark it all over again.
Soap opera writers use Tension Loops to keep women enraptured in their fictitious dramas for months - sometimes years!
The
structure is always the same. The soap starts off with some form of
conflict or drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension.
Emotional tension increases up until the point of the climax. The
tension, then, is released by bringing some resolution to the conflict
or drama. And, finally, the show ends by sparking the tension all over
again, compelling women to tune in for next week's show.
Mastering
the Tension Loop gives you the kind of power over women that, at first,
might scare you. But if you're thinking that this is what I wanted to
share with you, you're wrong.
So keep reading...
In a minute, you're going to learn a special type of Tension Loop I call "Push-Pull."
If
you aren't comfortable with the having the power to generate attraction
inside the women you desire regardless of them finding you physically
appealing, you might want to stop reading now!
What I'm about to
reveal is Jedi mind shit. We're talking Yoda power! And you don't have
to become Darth Vader to reap the benefits of Push-Pull. Every ladies’
man I've ever met uses some form of Push-Pull.
Push-Pull is
whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you and, then,
emotionally pull her back in. Each Push creates anemotional space for
each Pull.
To get a feel for what I'm talkin' about, think, for example, of your favorite junk food.
What
if you went on a strict diet for several weeks, depriving yourself of
giving in to that urge to chow down on your favorite food?
What would it be like to finally give in to your urge and indulge?
I'm willing to bet it would be more intense than if you hadn't gone on your strict diet, yes?
Now imagine in the midst of enjoying your favorite food, a person yanking it away from you.
Annoying, yes? But I'm willing to bet, your desire for the food would grow exponentially.
Many
women are natural Push-Pull artists. Over the years I've heard dozens
of stories from hapless men about women using Push-Pull to pick them up
by the scruff of their proverbial neck, slamming their bodies with
back-and-forth and side-to-side motions into the ground.
My all
time favorite story is the one about the gorgeous girl sleeping with a
guy and then, after sex, putting his ego on steroids by telling him,
"You're the best lover I've ever had."
Things, then, alas, take a
self-esteem crushing turn for the worse when she undermines her praise
with: "Actually, you're the fourth best lover I've ever had."
The poor guy's confidence goes belly up as he struggles to move up to the number three slot.
We
can use these psychological mechanisms without being an A-hole or a
Jerk. The key is to make it playful and funny. Your intention should
never be to hurt a woman. Your goal is only to mess with her a bit.
Do this and women will find you charming and attractive.
Here's
an example of this I've used probably over a thousand times. At some
point while interacting with a woman I might take her hand and praise,
"You have the most amazing smile I've seen tonight... It makes me feel
so happy inside!"
She'll usually respond with, "Thank you!"
Then
I'll count the fingers on my other hand and say, "You know what:
actually there were four other girls with really amazing smiles tonight
as well. Out of them, you have the fourth best smile. I'm going to call
you number four." And then I'll push away her hand.
More often than not, women demand, "Nooo! I want to be number one!"
I'll usually retort with, "Alright, I'll promote you to number three for being feisty."
Do
women find this derisive and mean? Not at all (Note: once in while
you'll encounter a psychologically damaged woman who doesn't think this
is cute. She is the exception and not the rule. My advice: run Forrest
run).
Most women find this funny, charming, and playful. More
importantly, it generates attraction: the emotion of wanting and
reaching and chasing for more of you.
Push-Pull is the crème de la crème of attraction tools.
Master
Push-Pull and you'll leave women no choice but to feel attraction
toward you... even if they're repulsed by your physical appearance.
Realize that this is a newsletter and I'm only scratching the surface of Push-Pull.
In
my ebook you'll learn six types of Push-Pull: Intentional Undermining,
Guilty Conscience, Emotional Rollercoaster, Revealing & Concealing,
and Good Cop/ Bad Cop.
My course is the only place on the planet where you'll learn about Push-Pull.
But this only scratches the surface of what you’ll learn inside my ebook.
It's
a complete education on attracting women, giving you the tools to
transform yourself into the kind of man women feel uncontrollably
attracted to.
Just think what it will be like to finally have the
skills and confidence to plop your butt in the driver's seat while
interacting with women, giving you the power and choice to take your
interactions with them in the direction you want. Start getting this
area of your life taken care of right now by getting your hands on a
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Real World Seduction
Your Loyal Dating Coach,
Swinggcat
"Dr. of Attraction"
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