Heretical Realities

When was the last time you bought an attractive woman you would like to meet a drink? Did she think that you were a really kind guy and that this was a nice gesture? I bet sweetheart. Did you get her number? Don’t think so!

You see, every guy thinks that if he wants to meet a woman, the best way to do this is by asking her is she wants a drink.

I mean c’mon man, get a grip. Why does every guy think this actually works?

First of all, you were not the only man in this world that came up with that brilliant idea. 9 in 10 guys have had the exact same idea before you and guess what? They still use it as their main technique to introduce themselves.

But listen, it doesn’t work!

She will not think that you are sexy, interesting or somebody she would like to go on a date with. When you walk over there and say “Hi there … I just wanted to say that you are really cute, can I offer you a drink or something?” then she will think “GOD, not another one”

Attractive women get approached all the time, and most of the times they get offered a drink from random guys. Do they like to get free drinks? You bet! Hey, if a guy is stupid enough to buy a woman a drink in the first minute of talking to her, she might as well take it.

Now look, what makes you think that you will have a chance with that beautiful woman over there, if you are the 7th guy on that night who wants to offer her a drink. It doesn’t make you special, it doesn’t make you stand out and certainly doesn’t give her that gut level emotion called attraction towards you.

If you want to become successful with women and dating, then you need to be different. This is KEY! So why are you still buying women drinks? They should be buying you one. So here’s a rule of thumb: Do not chase women. They should be chasing you!

Next time you are talking to a very beautiful woman and she says “I’m thirsty, will you buy me a drink?” you better say “Hmm … nah, but you can buy me one”.

Remember: An attractive woman has heard it all before. Most guys that approach her are nice, polite and needy. They make it really obvious that they are after her right away, either buy telling her how beautiful she is, what her name is or by buying her a drink right away.

Do women like men that are easy to get? No! Where’s the fun in that? They want a challenge, not a wimp.

Attractive women are not used to chasing after guys, they are used to guys chasing after them. And that's exactly why you need to be different. If you are, you come off as an interesting and rare man … and she will get curious.

So if you want to get a beautiful woman attracted to you instantly, just say “Soo … you gonna buy me a drink? I let ya kiss my cheek but only if you’re nice”.

This will make her go “ahh you’re soo cheeky!” hit you on the arm … and the game in on.

Keep it up, and don’t forget to practice!

Nick Shane is a street-smart Dating-Expert and author of the book "Playboyskool" and several other products that help regular guys like YOU become more successful with women and dating. Get his FREE online Dating Tips newsletter at Playboy Skool

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