:: An Inside Look into How a Man Attracts a Woman :: How to Get Women to Date You :: How to Get Her Outside the Club :: How an Ordinary Guy Did Some Extraordinary Things with a Very Beautiful Woman :: What Women Want in a Relationship :: Are Strippers Really Crazy :: How Intentionally Messing Up Your Chances with a Woman Can Skyrocket Your Success :: How to Approach and Meet Women :: Do Strippers Make Good Girlfriends :: How to Be a Nice Guy and Still Get Women :: How to Destroy Shyness Step-by-Step :: How to Get Women to Approach YOU :: Three Laws of Attraction Every Guy Has to Know :: When Did You Lose Your Virginity :: How to Be Treated Like a VIP :: The Stripper Girlfriend Mystery :: How to Get a Womans Phone Number - the Right Way :: Can Average Guys Attract Hot Women :: How to Compel Women to See You as a Sausage with Feet :: Do You Have Bad Behaviors that Keep You from Succeeding with Women :: How to Attract Women - Being the Bad Boy :: Should You Pay for a Woman or Not :: Never Buy a Woman a Drink :: Laid Back Ways to Bust Women :: An Attraction Secret I Learned from a Frog :: Why There Is No Such Thing as Failure with Women :: How to Get a Girl for Less Money :: Why Most Pick Up Lines Don't Work and a Better Solution :: Approaching Women with Boyfriends :: How to Pick Up a Woman on the Street :: How to Be the Man Women Love :: Why Should You Date a Stripper :: Why Neither Behaving Like a Jerk nor Acting Like a Nice Guy Will Attract Women :: Actual Game Conversation :: Why Women Never Call You After a Date :: How Does an Average Looking Joe Stand Out from other Guys and Have Women Picking Him over the Rest :: Do You Know How to Meet a Woman on the Street :: How to Create Instant Attraction and Have Women Chase YOU :: How to Kiss a Woman - without Rejection :: How to Start Meeting More Women Tonight :: The Two Magical Traits that ALL Women Are Attracted To :: How to Turn a Friend into a Lover :: Is Meeting Women a Chore for You :: How to Instantly Spark a Womans Attraction for You :: How to Talk to Women over the Phone :: You Are Not Special :: How to Attract Women - How to Impress Women :: How to Meet Women in Nightclubs and Streets :: Its Friday - Do You Know Where Your Women Are :: The Psychology Behind Triggering Attraction in Women :: The First and Most Basic Step to Becoming Successful with Women :: How to End Your Fear of Approaching Women :: The Most Effective Way to Pick Up a Woman :: How to Meet a Woman When Shes with Her Friends :: Five Myths Preventing Men from Attracting Women :: Openers for All Situations :: Common Problems Guys Have with Women :: The Ultimate Mistake Men Make with Women :: The Secret to Approaching Women and Starting Conversations :: Do Women Want to Be Hit On :: A Question from a Girl :: Do You Know When a Woman Is Checking You Out :: What if You Blow It with a Woman :: Push-Pull - A Powerful Way to Trigger Attraction Inside Women :: Why You Must NEVER Compliment Women :: How to Find a Girlfriend

:: Integrative Awakening :: So Goes the Nation :: A Complaint Free World :: The Authoritarians by Bob Altemeyer :: Enron - The Smartest Guys in the Room :: Energized Hypnosis :: Out There Radio :: Warrior Sage :: The Golden Hummingbird

:: Random Hostile Reality Tunnel :: Change Your Behavior - Change Your Life :: Lecture by John Dean - Author of Broken Government :: Dreaming - The Beginning :: Demons - Tricks - Danger and Despair :: Flying among the Apartments :: Learning the Archetypes :: Furious Family Holiday Reunion :: Beating My Bully :: The Magician :: Zombie Nightmare :: My Brother and I Saving Lives :: The Juice-Box - The Lie - Golf-Cart Road-Rage :: In the Village :: Cats in the Ocean

:: The Psychology Behind Triggering Attraction in Women :: Do You Know When a Woman Is Checking You Out :: What Women Want in a Relationship :: Are Strippers Really Crazy :: An Inside Look into How a Man Attracts a Woman :: Why You Must NEVER Compliment Women :: Do Women Want to Be Hit On :: Do Strippers Make Good Girlfriends :: Approaching Women with Boyfriends :: Never Buy a Woman a Drink :: How an Ordinary Guy Did Some Extraordinary Things with a Very Beautiful Woman :: How to Find a Girlfriend :: An Attraction Secret I Learned from a Frog :: How to Turn a Friend into a Lover :: Energized Hypnosis :: The Two Magical Traits that ALL Women Are Attracted To :: How to Get Her Outside the Club :: Should You Pay for a Woman or Not :: How to Approach and Meet Women :: The Most Effective Way to Pick Up a Woman :: The Ultimate Mistake Men Make with Women :: How to Create Instant Attraction and Have Women Chase YOU :: Integrative Awakening :: How to Instantly Spark a Womans Attraction for You :: How to Get Women to Date You :: The Golden Hummingbird :: Lecture by John Dean - Author of Broken Government :: How to Attract Women - Being the Bad Boy :: How to Get a Womans Phone Number - the Right Way :: How Intentionally Messing Up Your Chances with a Woman Can Skyrocket Your Success :: Enron - The Smartest Guys in the Room :: The Secret to Approaching Women and Starting Conversations :: How to Be a Nice Guy and Still Get Women :: The Magician :: Cats in the Ocean :: The Stripper Girlfriend Mystery :: Push-Pull - A Powerful Way to Trigger Attraction Inside Women :: Dreaming - The Beginning :: Five Myths Preventing Men from Attracting Women :: Laid Back Ways to Bust Women :: Why Should You Date a Stripper :: Random Hostile Reality Tunnel :: Can Average Guys Attract Hot Women :: How to Talk to Women over the Phone :: Actual Game Conversation :: What if You Blow It with a Woman :: How to Destroy Shyness Step-by-Step :: Warrior Sage :: How to Get a Girl for Less Money :: How to Get Women to Approach YOU :: Three Laws of Attraction Every Guy Has to Know :: Why Most Pick Up Lines Don't Work and a Better Solution :: The First and Most Basic Step to Becoming Successful with Women :: Do You Have Bad Behaviors that Keep You from Succeeding with Women :: A Question from a Girl :: Demons - Tricks - Danger and Despair :: Why There Is No Such Thing as Failure with Women :: How to Meet a Woman When Shes with Her Friends :: How to Compel Women to See You as a Sausage with Feet :: Beating My Bully :: Furious Family Holiday Reunion :: How to End Your Fear of Approaching Women :: Common Problems Guys Have with Women :: How to Kiss a Woman - without Rejection :: How to Attract Women - How to Impress Women :: In the Village :: How to Be the Man Women Love :: How to Be Treated Like a VIP :: How to Pick Up a Woman on the Street :: Is Meeting Women a Chore for You :: Learning the Archetypes :: When Did You Lose Your Virginity :: You Are Not Special :: Why Neither Behaving Like a Jerk nor Acting Like a Nice Guy Will Attract Women :: How Does an Average Looking Joe Stand Out from other Guys and Have Women Picking Him over the Rest :: Openers for All Situations :: Change Your Behavior - Change Your Life :: Flying among the Apartments :: So Goes the Nation :: Why Women Never Call You After a Date :: Do You Know How to Meet a Woman on the Street :: Zombie Nightmare :: The Authoritarians by Bob Altemeyer :: My Brother and I Saving Lives :: A Complaint Free World :: Its Friday - Do You Know Where Your Women Are :: How to Start Meeting More Women Tonight :: The Juice-Box - The Lie - Golf-Cart Road-Rage :: How to Meet Women in Nightclubs and Streets :: Out There Radio

:: An Inside Look into How a Man Attracts a Woman :: How to Get Women to Date You :: How to Get Her Outside the Club :: How an Ordinary Guy Did Some Extraordinary Things with a Very Beautiful Woman :: What Women Want in a Relationship :: Are Strippers Really Crazy :: How Intentionally Messing Up Your Chances with a Woman Can Skyrocket Your Success :: How to Approach and Meet Women :: Do Strippers Make Good Girlfriends :: How to Be a Nice Guy and Still Get Women :: How to Destroy Shyness Step-by-Step :: How to Get Women to Approach YOU :: Three Laws of Attraction Every Guy Has to Know :: When Did You Lose Your Virginity :: How to Be Treated Like a VIP :: The Stripper Girlfriend Mystery :: How to Get a Womans Phone Number - the Right Way :: Can Average Guys Attract Hot Women :: How to Compel Women to See You as a Sausage with Feet :: Do You Have Bad Behaviors that Keep You from Succeeding with Women :: How to Attract Women - Being the Bad Boy :: Should You Pay for a Woman or Not :: Never Buy a Woman a Drink :: Laid Back Ways to Bust Women :: An Attraction Secret I Learned from a Frog :: Why There Is No Such Thing as Failure with Women :: How to Get a Girl for Less Money :: Why Most Pick Up Lines Don't Work and a Better Solution :: Approaching Women with Boyfriends :: How to Pick Up a Woman on the Street :: How to Be the Man Women Love :: Why Should You Date a Stripper :: Why Neither Behaving Like a Jerk nor Acting Like a Nice Guy Will Attract Women :: Actual Game Conversation :: Why Women Never Call You After a Date :: How Does an Average Looking Joe Stand Out from other Guys and Have Women Picking Him over the Rest :: Do You Know How to Meet a Woman on the Street :: How to Create Instant Attraction and Have Women Chase YOU :: How to Kiss a Woman - without Rejection :: How to Start Meeting More Women Tonight :: The Two Magical Traits that ALL Women Are Attracted To :: How to Turn a Friend into a Lover :: Is Meeting Women a Chore for You :: How to Instantly Spark a Womans Attraction for You :: How to Talk to Women over the Phone :: Integrative Awakening :: You Are Not Special :: How to Attract Women - How to Impress Women :: How to Meet Women in Nightclubs and Streets :: So Goes the Nation :: Its Friday - Do You Know Where Your Women Are :: A Complaint Free World :: The Authoritarians by Bob Altemeyer :: Random Hostile Reality Tunnel :: Change Your Behavior - Change Your Life :: Lecture by John Dean - Author of Broken Government :: The Psychology Behind Triggering Attraction in Women :: The First and Most Basic Step to Becoming Successful with Women :: How to End Your Fear of Approaching Women :: The Most Effective Way to Pick Up a Woman :: How to Meet a Woman When Shes with Her Friends :: Enron - The Smartest Guys in the Room :: Five Myths Preventing Men from Attracting Women :: Energized Hypnosis :: Out There Radio :: Openers for All Situations :: Dreaming - The Beginning :: Warrior Sage :: Common Problems Guys Have with Women :: The Ultimate Mistake Men Make with Women :: The Secret to Approaching Women and Starting Conversations :: Do Women Want to Be Hit On :: A Question from a Girl :: Do You Know When a Woman Is Checking You Out :: What if You Blow It with a Woman :: Push-Pull - A Powerful Way to Trigger Attraction Inside Women :: How to Find a Girlfriend :: Why You Must NEVER Compliment Women :: The Golden Hummingbird :: Demons - Tricks - Danger and Despair :: Flying among the Apartments :: Learning the Archetypes :: Beating My Bully :: Furious Family Holiday Reunion :: The Magician :: Zombie Nightmare :: My Brother and I Saving Lives :: The Juice-Box - The Lie - Golf-Cart Road-Rage :: In the Village :: Cats in the Ocean

Heretical Realities

An Exploration of Realities Beyond the Accepted

How to Be a Nice Guy and Still Get Women

Written by Joseph Matthews

Wednesday, 19 December 2007

Have you ever heard that old familiar lament:

"Nice Guys Finish Last, Jerks Get Laid?"

At first glance, it would seem that is true.

There are a lot of Jerks out there who are able to attract tons and tons of women.

And there are a lot of Nice Guys who struggle with getting girls, and feel frustrated.

After all, who wants to have to be a jerk in order to get women?

Here's the thing...

YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE A JERK TO GET WOMEN!

You just have to change a few things you tend to be "nice" about.

For instance:

1. Social Restrictions

We tend to believe that there are "acceptable" and "unacceptable" things to do around women.

And while this is true to some extent, Nice Guys are often wrong about the limits of what is acceptable.

Like being sexual around women. Many Nice Guys believe this is "inappropriate behavior."

But that's wrong!

Being sexual around a woman is a very powerful way of communicating your interest in her.

Little things like flirting and joking about sex can go a long way into making you a potential lover instead of just a potential "friend."

2. Inability To Act

Too often, "Nice Guys" wait around for the girl to make the first move to initiate romance.

This is a DEADLY mistake!

Women take their cues from the men they're with. If you want to escalate into a physical relationship, you have to be the one to make the first move.

This can be scary. It's possible to get rejected.

But if you don't do it, you won't succeed!

Actions speak louder than words, and if you allow yourself to act and go in for a kiss, or not be afraid to touch her, then you communicate all the right things...

Things like aggressiveness, confidence, and sexuality -- all things women find irresistibly attractive!

3. Diarrhea Of The Mouth

Way too many Nice Guys like to talk about boring stuff.

They do nothing to captivate the girl. Their stories don't inspire romance or attraction.

In short: Nice Guys are neutered!

The real trick with women is to be playful! Have fun with them!

Crack jokes.

Tease them.

Have a good time.

Show her a little bit of attention instead of focusing on yourself -- but don't take yourself for granted either!

If you just talk, and talk, and talk without knowing what you're saying, you're going to bore the girl you're with.

And girls who are bored with you will not be attracted to you.

If you look at the three points above, you can see that the Jerks who get all the women do these things.

BUT, Nice guys can do them too, and not have to act like a complete horses ass to do them!

You can still be the Nice Guy you've always been, but just change three simple tactics and see a drastic improvement in your success with women.

Here's a recent success story I got from a Nice Guy who followed my advice...

NICE GUY SUCCESS STORY:

Dude, your stuff works!

I went out last night and took the lead much more. Also, thinking of what you told me, I pressed forward on every sexual innuendo opening that popped up. It is amazing how quickly girls opened up.

I ended up talking to this guy and the two girls with him about hotel porn and the fact that everybody, including women watches it (something I'd never thought I'd talk to women about before).

We talked about Michael Ninn and porn with real storylines and started dreaming up porn careers for ourselves.

Anyway, long story short, when they closed the club we ended up at his place nearby; nice and big with a Japanese garden. We joked around and the girls did stupid dances to the indian electronica that was playing and eventually at like four am we paired off.

I just got back!

That is the quickest result I have had yet and it was fun to be so open. Thanks!

R. (recovering Nice Guy)

f you want to have really effective successes and turn your luck around, you really need to read my book The Art Of Approaching.

This information is truly LETHAL stuff.

The Nice Guy above emailed me a few times about his problems, and I gave him the EXACT SAME information I just gave you.

And look what it got him!

Listen to Uncle Joseph, I don't steer you wrong!

If you don't start applying the strategies in my book, you'll have to be happy with what you're getting right now.

But if you can imagine going out to meet women armed with the "secret weapons" I give you that can help boost your confidence and get beautiful girl after beautiful girl to date you...

Well, I'm sure you're starting to realize the possibilities. =)

To download your book right now, click on the link below:

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Start enjoying real success with women right now.

Good luck!

Joseph Matthews

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