:: An Inside Look into How a Man Attracts a Woman :: How to Get Women to Date You :: How to Get Her Outside the Club :: How an Ordinary Guy Did Some Extraordinary Things with a Very Beautiful Woman :: What Women Want in a Relationship :: Are Strippers Really Crazy :: How Intentionally Messing Up Your Chances with a Woman Can Skyrocket Your Success :: How to Approach and Meet Women :: Do Strippers Make Good Girlfriends :: How to Be a Nice Guy and Still Get Women :: How to Destroy Shyness Step-by-Step :: How to Get Women to Approach YOU :: Three Laws of Attraction Every Guy Has to Know :: When Did You Lose Your Virginity :: How to Be Treated Like a VIP :: The Stripper Girlfriend Mystery :: How to Get a Womans Phone Number - the Right Way :: Can Average Guys Attract Hot Women :: How to Compel Women to See You as a Sausage with Feet :: Do You Have Bad Behaviors that Keep You from Succeeding with Women :: How to Attract Women - Being the Bad Boy :: Should You Pay for a Woman or Not :: Never Buy a Woman a Drink :: Laid Back Ways to Bust Women :: An Attraction Secret I Learned from a Frog :: Why There Is No Such Thing as Failure with Women :: How to Get a Girl for Less Money :: Why Most Pick Up Lines Don't Work and a Better Solution :: Approaching Women with Boyfriends :: How to Pick Up a Woman on the Street :: How to Be the Man Women Love :: Why Should You Date a Stripper :: Why Neither Behaving Like a Jerk nor Acting Like a Nice Guy Will Attract Women :: Actual Game Conversation :: Why Women Never Call You After a Date :: How Does an Average Looking Joe Stand Out from other Guys and Have Women Picking Him over the Rest :: Do You Know How to Meet a Woman on the Street :: How to Create Instant Attraction and Have Women Chase YOU :: How to Kiss a Woman - without Rejection :: How to Start Meeting More Women Tonight :: The Two Magical Traits that ALL Women Are Attracted To :: How to Turn a Friend into a Lover :: Is Meeting Women a Chore for You :: How to Instantly Spark a Womans Attraction for You :: How to Talk to Women over the Phone :: You Are Not Special :: How to Attract Women - How to Impress Women :: How to Meet Women in Nightclubs and Streets :: Its Friday - Do You Know Where Your Women Are :: The Psychology Behind Triggering Attraction in Women :: The First and Most Basic Step to Becoming Successful with Women :: How to End Your Fear of Approaching Women :: The Most Effective Way to Pick Up a Woman :: How to Meet a Woman When Shes with Her Friends :: Five Myths Preventing Men from Attracting Women :: Openers for All Situations :: Common Problems Guys Have with Women :: The Ultimate Mistake Men Make with Women :: The Secret to Approaching Women and Starting Conversations :: Do Women Want to Be Hit On :: A Question from a Girl :: Do You Know When a Woman Is Checking You Out :: What if You Blow It with a Woman :: Push-Pull - A Powerful Way to Trigger Attraction Inside Women :: Why You Must NEVER Compliment Women :: How to Find a Girlfriend

:: Integrative Awakening :: So Goes the Nation :: A Complaint Free World :: The Authoritarians by Bob Altemeyer :: Enron - The Smartest Guys in the Room :: Energized Hypnosis :: Out There Radio :: Warrior Sage :: The Golden Hummingbird

:: Random Hostile Reality Tunnel :: Change Your Behavior - Change Your Life :: Lecture by John Dean - Author of Broken Government :: Dreaming - The Beginning :: Demons - Tricks - Danger and Despair :: Flying among the Apartments :: Learning the Archetypes :: Furious Family Holiday Reunion :: Beating My Bully :: The Magician :: Zombie Nightmare :: My Brother and I Saving Lives :: The Juice-Box - The Lie - Golf-Cart Road-Rage :: In the Village :: Cats in the Ocean

:: Do You Know When a Woman Is Checking You Out :: The Psychology Behind Triggering Attraction in Women :: Are Strippers Really Crazy :: What Women Want in a Relationship :: An Inside Look into How a Man Attracts a Woman :: Do Strippers Make Good Girlfriends :: How an Ordinary Guy Did Some Extraordinary Things with a Very Beautiful Woman :: How to Turn a Friend into a Lover :: How to Get Her Outside the Club :: How to Get Women to Date You :: Why You Must NEVER Compliment Women :: Approaching Women with Boyfriends :: How to Approach and Meet Women :: Do Women Want to Be Hit On :: Never Buy a Woman a Drink :: Energized Hypnosis :: An Attraction Secret I Learned from a Frog :: How to Be a Nice Guy and Still Get Women :: How to Find a Girlfriend :: The Two Magical Traits that ALL Women Are Attracted To :: How Intentionally Messing Up Your Chances with a Woman Can Skyrocket Your Success :: Push-Pull - A Powerful Way to Trigger Attraction Inside Women :: Three Laws of Attraction Every Guy Has to Know :: Why Should You Date a Stripper :: How to Create Instant Attraction and Have Women Chase YOU :: Lecture by John Dean - Author of Broken Government :: Laid Back Ways to Bust Women :: How to Be Treated Like a VIP :: The Stripper Girlfriend Mystery :: Actual Game Conversation :: Why There Is No Such Thing as Failure with Women :: Should You Pay for a Woman or Not :: Integrative Awakening :: Can Average Guys Attract Hot Women :: How to Destroy Shyness Step-by-Step :: Dreaming - The Beginning :: Random Hostile Reality Tunnel :: How to Kiss a Woman - without Rejection :: How to Get Women to Approach YOU :: How to Instantly Spark a Womans Attraction for You :: The Ultimate Mistake Men Make with Women :: How to Get a Womans Phone Number - the Right Way :: How to Compel Women to See You as a Sausage with Feet :: The Most Effective Way to Pick Up a Woman :: How to Attract Women - Being the Bad Boy :: Why Most Pick Up Lines Don't Work and a Better Solution :: Enron - The Smartest Guys in the Room :: The Golden Hummingbird :: The Secret to Approaching Women and Starting Conversations :: So Goes the Nation :: The Magician :: Why Women Never Call You After a Date :: How to Get a Girl for Less Money :: How to Pick Up a Woman on the Street :: How to End Your Fear of Approaching Women :: A Complaint Free World :: Why Neither Behaving Like a Jerk nor Acting Like a Nice Guy Will Attract Women :: How to Be the Man Women Love :: Five Myths Preventing Men from Attracting Women :: You Are Not Special :: How to Attract Women - How to Impress Women :: Do You Have Bad Behaviors that Keep You from Succeeding with Women :: Demons - Tricks - Danger and Despair :: How Does an Average Looking Joe Stand Out from other Guys and Have Women Picking Him over the Rest :: How to Meet a Woman When Shes with Her Friends :: How to Talk to Women over the Phone :: Warrior Sage :: Is Meeting Women a Chore for You :: Learning the Archetypes :: Beating My Bully :: When Did You Lose Your Virginity :: The Authoritarians by Bob Altemeyer :: Openers for All Situations :: A Question from a Girl :: Do You Know How to Meet a Woman on the Street :: Cats in the Ocean :: What if You Blow It with a Woman :: How to Start Meeting More Women Tonight :: Its Friday - Do You Know Where Your Women Are :: Change Your Behavior - Change Your Life :: Zombie Nightmare :: The First and Most Basic Step to Becoming Successful with Women :: Furious Family Holiday Reunion :: Common Problems Guys Have with Women :: Flying among the Apartments :: The Juice-Box - The Lie - Golf-Cart Road-Rage :: In the Village :: How to Meet Women in Nightclubs and Streets :: My Brother and I Saving Lives :: Out There Radio

:: An Inside Look into How a Man Attracts a Woman :: How to Get Women to Date You :: How to Get Her Outside the Club :: How an Ordinary Guy Did Some Extraordinary Things with a Very Beautiful Woman :: What Women Want in a Relationship :: Are Strippers Really Crazy :: How Intentionally Messing Up Your Chances with a Woman Can Skyrocket Your Success :: How to Approach and Meet Women :: Do Strippers Make Good Girlfriends :: How to Be a Nice Guy and Still Get Women :: How to Destroy Shyness Step-by-Step :: How to Get Women to Approach YOU :: Three Laws of Attraction Every Guy Has to Know :: When Did You Lose Your Virginity :: How to Be Treated Like a VIP :: The Stripper Girlfriend Mystery :: How to Get a Womans Phone Number - the Right Way :: Can Average Guys Attract Hot Women :: How to Compel Women to See You as a Sausage with Feet :: Do You Have Bad Behaviors that Keep You from Succeeding with Women :: How to Attract Women - Being the Bad Boy :: Should You Pay for a Woman or Not :: Never Buy a Woman a Drink :: Laid Back Ways to Bust Women :: An Attraction Secret I Learned from a Frog :: Why There Is No Such Thing as Failure with Women :: How to Get a Girl for Less Money :: Why Most Pick Up Lines Don't Work and a Better Solution :: Approaching Women with Boyfriends :: How to Pick Up a Woman on the Street :: How to Be the Man Women Love :: Why Should You Date a Stripper :: Why Neither Behaving Like a Jerk nor Acting Like a Nice Guy Will Attract Women :: Actual Game Conversation :: Why Women Never Call You After a Date :: How Does an Average Looking Joe Stand Out from other Guys and Have Women Picking Him over the Rest :: Do You Know How to Meet a Woman on the Street :: How to Create Instant Attraction and Have Women Chase YOU :: How to Kiss a Woman - without Rejection :: How to Start Meeting More Women Tonight :: The Two Magical Traits that ALL Women Are Attracted To :: How to Turn a Friend into a Lover :: Is Meeting Women a Chore for You :: How to Instantly Spark a Womans Attraction for You :: How to Talk to Women over the Phone :: Integrative Awakening :: You Are Not Special :: How to Attract Women - How to Impress Women :: How to Meet Women in Nightclubs and Streets :: So Goes the Nation :: Its Friday - Do You Know Where Your Women Are :: A Complaint Free World :: The Authoritarians by Bob Altemeyer :: Random Hostile Reality Tunnel :: Change Your Behavior - Change Your Life :: Lecture by John Dean - Author of Broken Government :: The Psychology Behind Triggering Attraction in Women :: The First and Most Basic Step to Becoming Successful with Women :: How to End Your Fear of Approaching Women :: The Most Effective Way to Pick Up a Woman :: How to Meet a Woman When Shes with Her Friends :: Enron - The Smartest Guys in the Room :: Five Myths Preventing Men from Attracting Women :: Energized Hypnosis :: Out There Radio :: Openers for All Situations :: Dreaming - The Beginning :: Warrior Sage :: Common Problems Guys Have with Women :: The Ultimate Mistake Men Make with Women :: The Secret to Approaching Women and Starting Conversations :: Do Women Want to Be Hit On :: A Question from a Girl :: Do You Know When a Woman Is Checking You Out :: What if You Blow It with a Woman :: Push-Pull - A Powerful Way to Trigger Attraction Inside Women :: How to Find a Girlfriend :: Why You Must NEVER Compliment Women :: The Golden Hummingbird :: Demons - Tricks - Danger and Despair :: Flying among the Apartments :: Learning the Archetypes :: Beating My Bully :: Furious Family Holiday Reunion :: The Magician :: Zombie Nightmare :: My Brother and I Saving Lives :: The Juice-Box - The Lie - Golf-Cart Road-Rage :: In the Village :: Cats in the Ocean

Heretical Realities

An Exploration of Realities Beyond the Accepted

Approaching Women with Boyfriends

Written by Simon Heong

Friday, 16 November 2007

You're in a bar 'chilling' having a great time with your friends, minding your own business when suddenly when this hot chick walked in.

You instantly perk up, adrenalin starts pumping, you're ready to walk up to her...

**Crap**

She's got guy/s with her.

Ever had that happen before?

Not too sure about you, but it's happened to me like a GAZILLION times.

Well, if you're a 'clubbie' like me, you'll find that women seldom frequent clubs solo. Usually they're in the company of friends or more specifically there's usually a guy in tow!

What's one to do then?

Should you be discouraged by it?

Do you just 'give up'?

Hell, no!

Here are a few pointers to approach women who frequent clubs or any public setting for that matter with a guy/s.

But before we go any further, I'd like to clarify a couple of things.

While it's perfectly NORMAL to approach a girl who is in the company of a guy, I do not advocate trying to pick up a girl who is already with a 'steady' partner.

Trying to do that is no different than stirring up a hornet's nest!

No guy likes another guy messing around with their 'girl'.

If you do that, then well... it's safe to say that the result is very likely going to be kinda 'unpleasant'.

Do it wrongly, going overboard with it, and there's a slight chance you might get into a fight and end up getting hurt. So if that hot chick is lovey dovey with her guy, I suggest you look else where and remove her from your list of potential targets.

It's easy to spot couples even when they're in a group. Their body language will tell you if they're a couple.

Tell tale signs: they usually sit closer together, lots of interaction between them, touching, holding hands, kissing and lots of gazing into each others' eyes.

On the other hand, if the girl is with a guy who is a casual friend, they usually sit further apart.

Once you have ascertained that the guy is just a friend', initiate eye contact and watch her reaction.

Observe her body language. If she smiles back and occasionally steal glances your way, that's a sign of interest.

If this is the case, you'll have two ways you to approach her. One way is to wait till she is alone.

Do it when the guy is away to the gents or intercept her when she is on her way back from the ladies.

Reminder: The line you use as your opener does NOT matter.

You: Hey, Winnie what's up?

Her: Do I know you?

You: Come on Winnie, it's ME. Quit playin.

Her: I'm sorry but I think you've got the wrong person.

You: I know. Just messin withcha *smile* By the way, I'm John and you are?

What matters is how you catch her attention, ENGAGE her and how you make her laugh.

Laughing will LOWER her guard down, make her COMFORTABLE around you and this naturally makes her more receptive within your interactions.

If you approach her when she is at her table, it is more conducive for 1-1 interaction. When both of you are seated, it is naturally easier to focus on INVOLVING her in your interaction when she is standing or walking back to her table.

Your objective is to keep her interested and have HER part with her digits so that you can arrange to meet up at a later date.

To make the most impact, keep the first encounter short and memorable so that she'd look forward to seeing you again.

The second way of approaching a girl who is in the company of others is with the help of a 'wing'. This strategy requires you to work in pairs.

A wing can be any one of your friends. His/her job is to distract your targets partner so that you can zoom in on your target.

A word of caution when you have a wingman; both of you should have a common understanding and should technically not be interested in the same girl.

I'm out of space here, you can visit this page to learn more:

Approaching Women Tips

Doing cold approaches with absolute strangers can be the most EXHILIRATING and EMPOWERING thing when done right. It'll be scary as hell when you first do it, but when you've gotten it down, believe me, you'll be jumping up in the air, do a Leonardo and go "I'm on top of the worlddd!!"

By the way, if you still haven't gotten yourself the "Instant Attraction" course, you should. It's the underlying FOUNDATION that's been discussed here within our newsletters.

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Talk to you soon.

[About the Author]:

Simon Heong is the publisher of the Dating & Seduction Online Best Seller, the Instant Attraction Program -- the community's MOST COMPREHENSIVE program revealing the most intimate secrets on female attraction techniques and dating strategies.

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