This
week I have a very special treat for you. A few guys emailed me their
wish lists of things they'd like me to write about. I swear, sometimes
I feel like Santa! High on their lists was a request for a few real
life examples of my techniques in action. My feeling is that the more
examples you hear and read about, the deeper your understanding of my
techniques will become. Put simply, Real World examples are awesome!
Those
of you who've had the Opportunity to read my book know that I have a
great example of this in the last chapter. I have decided to include a
report a guy sent in to me about him sleeping with a woman within a
very short time
span using my techniques. In this newsletter I am
going to critique it by breaking down the techniques he used to get
very sexual with this woman. I am really spoon feeding you some
powerful knowledge for success with women.
Putting something like
this together, however, expends a lot of time and energy. If you
benefit, though, my efforts are well worth it!
To really benefit
from this, you need to have read my book. So, if you own my book but
have not taken the opportunity to read it, Do! If you haven't gotten my
book yet, you need to. By not having read my book you are depriving
yourself of much of the benefits you could be getting from this
newsletter. So, pick up a copy:
I
was reading the Art of Approaching, under the online openers. And the
one where you send an email saying how you're good looking, funny, etc
then modest, I used that on a girl and she responded very well to it.
But since then its been very ho-hum. I can't get to meeting her. All I
got is her AIM screenname. But I don't know how to take it to the next
step. I know that I have to meet her if I want anything to happen, but
I don't know how it should be done. I need your help.
- Stephen
MY RESPONSE:
Hi Stephen,
First of all -- of COURSE that email got a great response! That's one of my patented internet dating techniques.
(You know I'd never share something with you that DOESN'T work!)
But you seem to be running into a common problem that most guys who are dating on the internet eventually run into...
THE TRANSITION!
You know, the part where you move from online to offline.
In a way, it's really no different from setting up a date after meeting a woman in the real world.
A
while back someone emailed me a great success story. I saved it on my
computer and forgot about it. Last week I was going through my computer
and found it. I thought, "Wow! - this is a really great story," and was
planning on using it in my last newsletter. But, then, as I was reading
through it, I thought to myself, "there is so much good stuff going on
here, I could do a whole newsletter on it." And that's exactly what I'm
doing. Enjoy!
"Hey Swinggcat! There once was a time when I would
walk into a bar, look at all the beautiful women having fun with guys
who were NOT me, and get depressed. So I'd start drinking, and that
would only make me more depressed. Eventually I'd go home alone, hating
the world, hating women, and most of all, hating myself for not even
TRYING to have fun.
Bars and clubs can be an intimidating
environment. Until recently, it wasn't in my reality to believe that I
could actually make out with a girl in either location. Sure, I'd seen
guys do it before, but to think that *I* could was just beyond any
logical reasoning my mind could grasp.
But in reading through
Swinggcat's book, there was a chapter that really stuck out at me. That
was the chapter on FRAMES. As Swinggcat defines it, a frame determines
the underlying meaning of behaviors and actions.
I've found this is a *key* concept in understanding any interaction with women.
I recieved a rather short, sweet, and intriguing question recently...
A QUESTION
Do women really know what they are looking for in a relationship?
--from Chilibean
AN ANSWER
Now that's a loaded question if I ever heard one, lol.
Here's the thing...
Different women have different expectations about what they want from a man and a relationship.
For
example, a young woman may not know what she wants in a relationship
simply because she isn't experienced enough to know what's important to
her yet.
A more mature woman, one who's been in
a lot of different relationships, may know exactly what she's looking
for in a relationship.
But there's one thing all types of women know about before they get into a relationship...
They know what they're ATTRACTED to!
See, the female mind processes things in this manner:
Welcome to Heretical Realities!
